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Article: How To Use iroha Sex Toys With Your Partner

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How To Use iroha Sex Toys With Your Partner

Many of us would like to show our partner some extra love or strengthen our relationship. A great way to do so is to introduce a sex toy into the bedroom.Not only are sex toys great for solo self-pleasure sessions, but they can also be used as a tool to strengthen intimacy or spice up your relationship. 

In this blog, we are going to share a few recommended iroha items that you and your partner can explore together.

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Navigating Intimacy and Toys with Your Partner

How To Use iroha With Your Partner

Communication and trust are the foundations of a healthy relationship. It is especially crucial to properly communicate with your partner regarding the idea of introducing a self-pleasure item into your shared intimate space.

Make sure both parties are consenting and fully comfortable with each other and the chosen toy. While it might feel a little intimidating to bring up the topic at first, the vulnerability can deeply strengthen your bond. Keep the conversation going by educating each other on what feels good, or by taking turns using the toy on one another!

Now, let’s dive into the best iroha items to try out with your partner.

iroha petit: Beginner-Friendly Addition 

iroha petit collection

If you are relatively new to adult novelties and aren't sure how you feel about vibrations yet, the iroha petit is a great starting choice! The petit is a unique, single-use item that offers an innovative, supple texture completely unlike traditional silicone or your fingers. You can use it to gently caress your own or your partner’s erogenous zones.

Thanks to its fluid, versatile design, you can use the iroha petit in multiple ways, such as gently gliding it over the skin or flicking the edges for targeted stimulation. It easily warms up to body temperature in the palms of your hands or in a warm bath. Conversely, during warmer seasons, you can pop it into the refrigerator for a thrilling, cooling sensation.

The body of the iroha petit is composed of 98% water and made with eco-friendly, biodegradable material. It is available in three distinct shapes: SHELL, PLUM, and LILY.

iroha temari: For Intimate Bathing


While our classic iroha ukidama is no longer available for sale, it originally paved the way for bath-time pleasure. If you love the idea of an intimate couples' bath, you will love the new iroha temari Series.

Inspired by temari balls—beautifully embroidered, traditional Japanese handballs dating back to the 7th century - the temari collection brings artistic design to the bedroom (and the tub).

The iroha temari KAZÉ, iroha temari MIZU, and iroha temari HANA feature the strongest motors in the iroha lineup at their highest settings. Even better, they are built with an internal structure that isolates the vibrations, meaning the powerful sensations go exactly where you want them, rather than numbing the hand that holds it. Because they are fully waterproof, they are the perfect companions for a relaxing, steamy bath for two.

iroha+ : A Luxurious, Versatile Experience

For couples looking for something deeply satisfying, we highly recommend our premium iroha+ collection, which features popular models like the TORI, KUSHI, and YORU.

The iroha+ Series is crafted from our signature Soft-Touch Silicone, providing an incredibly velvety feel paired with deep, powerful rhythmic sensations. The designs in this collection focus on more defined, sculpted edges, allowing you to accentuate and target stimulation to your exact liking. The iroha+ can be used smoothly for external clitoral stimulation, and depending on the specific model, the tips can also be used for gentle insertion. This versatility makes it a fantastic option for shared coupled pleasure.

Find out more about the iroha+ collection here.

iroha paiRING and paiRING+

The iroha paiRING and paiRING+ collection is crafted to deepen intimacy and elevate shared pleasure during your most intimate moments.

Made with stretchy, flexible material, the paiRING provides a comfortable, snug fit that naturally enhances sensations and prolongs fulfillment for both partners. For an even more immersive experience, the paiRING+ features an extended design and stronger vibrations, introducing deep, powerful vibrations that transmit rhythmic waves to stimulate you and your partner simultaneously. 

With a dedicated focus on enhancing female pleasure, this versatile duo seamlessly blends into your rhythm, bringing a sophisticated touch of harmony to coupled play.

Try Mutual Masturbation

Model with iroha+ KUSHI

Another excellent way to integrate an iroha product into your relationship is through mutual masturbation - pleasuring yourselves while in the same room. Just like partnered sex, mutual masturbation is deeply intimate and can help create a vulnerable, stronger bond between partners.

As always, check in with your partner before trying it out. Once you are both on board, you can choose to use your hands or pick out a dedicated device. Feel free to explore with your favorite vibe or any of the items mentioned above.

Want to learn more? Check out our dedicated guide on how to spice up your relationship with mutual masturbation for practical tips and ideas.

Summary

While these three collections are incredible starting points, many other items across our catalog are perfectly suited for partnered play. Depending on your personal preferences and comfort levels, don't be afraid to experiment with different shapes and settings to find what makes you both tick.

Remember, the secret ingredient to using sex toys with a partner is clear, open communication. Ensure that both of you are comfortable, enthusiastic, and having fun!

Myth-Busting: Not sure if it is okay to practice self-pleasure when you are in a committed relationship? Let us bust this myth together in our blog post: Is Self-Pleasure Normal in Relationships?




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